Online Flirting

Much the same work for online flirting that work for “brick and mortar” flirting and all relationships begin with successful flirting. Flirting is an art that requires oozing confidence without being OTT. If you go too far, it will label you “slimy” If you do not go far enough, she will label you “wimpy.” So how can you reach the halfway point between slimy and wimpy to do it online without using eye contact or body language? All you have a computer, an internet connection and membership in an online dating site, right?

1. Enjoy! Be light, fun and entertaining. Do you want to talk to you again. Flirting is fun.

2. Ooze confidence. Successful flirts have a positive attitude towards life. You must send an element of “feel good”. An optimistic attitude attracts women like honey attracts flies.

3. 3. The add … and do it often and sincerely. Nothing opens doors like making you feel good about yourself. Want more time with you and if it makes you a compliment say “thank you”. No self-deprecation.

4. Listen … Listen …. Listen. Be careful what you say and do the right questions. Make it open and talk about it. Make her feel that is interesting and that you are interested in it. Works great!

5th Do not be rude. Flirting does not include being sexually explicit, or take action if the lady does not answer you. If not interested, the message and move to the next prospect. If you get a lot of rejection, you should probably consider a different approach.

6. Send e-mail after your cat. This class is to send a thank you note for a gift and is vital to successful flirting.

Do not try to go too fast. Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship.